Hey everyone, how are you guys doing ? I'm loving my classes so far though we have not really started our lessons yet. Most of it were just introductory to the classes and what the class is actually about. No this is not a post about my classes or how a majority of my lecturers are down right hilarious.
I don't get people that does something horrible to us and after a few weeks, would come to us or text us a message and tell us they are sorry for what they did, that they were just angry at us for no reasons or tell us other bull shit why they did it in the first place and hopes that we would befriends with them again. Being a saint that we are, we would always forgive them and bring them back to our lives.....
But I know that everyone that does so, in the end gets hurt once more. Its like a girl being blinded by love. She broke off with her boyfriend who cheated on her with another girl or he was abusive to her but in the end, when the guy gave off a few sweet words, the girl will be swept off her feet. Typical. The girl would remember the good old days that they had and think that the guy has really change when in fact, the guy just hurts her all over again and round goes the cycle of how stupid the girl is.
"I'm sorry. I promise I won't do it again" says A.... 3 weeks or a month or two later A would hurt us again. Trash talk about us behind our back. ... then ask for our forgiveness again. It is just like the cycle of how stupid the girl is but this time, its the cycle of how stupid WE are. Why do we forgive and introduce those type of people back in to our live ? A teacher of mine once said just forgive the person that has done you wrong but never introduce them into your life again unless they are worthy.
This happens a lot in University. I know a few people that hate or dislike this group but they don't show it to others. Its just a feeling of knowing. They would act all sweet and friendly at this group but when they see an opportunity to attack or see the group being attack by others, they waste no time to enter and trash talk or give a so call 'constructive criticism' to the group. Knowing those people, I know that their true intentions are not to give constructive criticism but too trash talk about them.
When comparing let's say a Choir group with another choir group, we should never say that "Oh choir group A is so much better than your choir group. Why aren't your choir kids as discipline as Choir group A? They have other priorities too but they can still perform well with little practice?......." What we should say is that choir Group A is better than your group but you should follow in their foot steps and not look down at yourself or your group and be all emotional.
To be honest I seriously cannot stand how stupid or mentally retarded people are when it comes to criticizing others negatively just because they hate them. Why ? Your constructive bull shit is not constructive at all. People outside might see this from your point of view. Your point of view of "I don't like you so I'm going to say negative comments but say you can't handle constructive criticism when you cry or be emotional" point.
Not saying this because you're doing it to a friend of mine or what but because you are an idiot. Why do so ? Do you think when others hear or see what you have done you think that they are going to support you? Sure those that have the same feeling as you would stand by your side but how about the rest ?
The truth is, I am doing this because I hate your attitude. You are as fake as pressed on nails. You should say what you mean but don't say it mean. Everybody knows deep down inside how you truly feel about others and how crappy your attitude is.
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